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Willingness To Do What Life Gives,
Overcoming Reluctances, Availing Opportunities

by Roy Posner and MSS

Willingness To Do What Life Gives

Overcoming Reluctances

Availing Opportunities


 

Willingness to Do What Life Gives/Requires
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Accepting the Given, that Which Life Puts Before You
Life is constantly putting situations before us that we can accept, neglect, or reject. If we accept and take up these givens of life, sudden good fortune can come our way. For example, when a salesperson overcame his reluctance and accepted a request to work a second consecutive weekend shift on his job, he instantly attracted the biggest sales of his life. Likewise, when an executive overcame his reluctance to accept his role as head of the company, the firm suddenly blossomed thereafter. Action Plan: Consider which aspects of your life you've been reluctant or hesitant to embrace. Once you understand the cause, make the concerted effort to overcome your reluctance or hesitation. Watch life suddenly and abundantly respond thereafter!


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Take Care of the Current Work & Life Responds
When an individual takes care of his current work, does what needs to be done, and doesn't focus on what he wants, life will bring him what is aspired for on its own. (MSS)

 

Do One's Duty & Life Will Respond
When Man does his duty, Life does its duty of responding. (MSS)

Accepting Conditions of Life Attracts Response from Life
Moving from reluctance to acceptance, or even from indifference to accepting the conditions that life has put before you has a great tendency to attract sudden and abundant positive response from life.

Taking Up What You Were Reluctant To Do Exceeds It

It is repeatedly astonishing that when you take up what you were reluctant to do, that the original expectation is far exceeded. E.g. The work gets done in far less time, or there is far less to do, or it was much easier than you thoughts, etc. Our fear makes us completely ignorant of the future truth, which freezes us to inaction in the present. By giving up the fear or reluctance, when we shed the false view, there is created a new unfolding in time.

 

Living in the Present
Living in the present, you will tend to preoccupy yourself and fulfill the demands of the the work required of the present, not be preoccupied by past influences of future desires. Taking such a tact tends to attract positive conditions from life.

Absorbed in Present is To Be in Tune with Flow of Life
To be absorbed in the current work is to be in tune with the flow of events, of the unfolding of life. Positive conditions will tend to issue from such an approach.

Being Absorbed in the Present Succeeds
One significant point any one of us can fully appreciate is when we are ABSORBED in the present - forgetting the past and never calculating the future - the work becomes a glorious success and gets done to perfection. (MSS)

 

The Power of Now in Work

Here are several thoughts on how to bring the Power of Now to our daily work.

-Focus on the work before you, not something else you want to do, or resorting to indolence. This the key starting point.

-Focus completely on the present, without thought of past or future.

-Patiently do that work, with no apprehension, tension, and demand.

-Do the current work as carefully and perfectly as possible. Fully absorb yourself in trying to reach that perfection. This is another key.

-Consecrate the work to bring life’s conditions under control.

-Move to the depths and feel the silence and timelessness, and work from that poise. Meditation or concentration can support that effort.

-As a result of living in the depths over time, you will have intuitions of the past influence on the present, and intimations of where the present is going in the future. You will thus know at each point what to do in the present.

-Maintain fully positive attitudes at each point.

 -Be cheerful throughout.

-The goal is to create the greatest Efficiency in the work -- i.e. the greatest results with the least effort in the shortest period of time.

-In the peace and demands of the Now, we can create ultimate perfection.

-It will be accompanied by breakouts of sudden good fortune – i.e. Life Response.

 

Accepting the Given
If you accept and work with the reality and given at any moment, you enable positive response (of improvement over the given) in the next round.

The Road to Hana
In Hawaii there is a place that has captured the imagination of adventurers, tourists, and lovers alike. It is the mysterious island of Maui. While many come to vacation, snorkel, golf, and wander its endless palm-lined beaches, others come to have an experience in nature that will be moving -- perhaps even enlightening.

But where would one find such a place on this allegedly enchanted island? Probably not in the big, luxurious hotels lining the shoreline of Lahaina; nor the exceedingly wealthy gated communities on the gently sloping hills overlooking the spectacular beaches of Wailea.  Rather one tends to look up to the two great volcanoes on the west and east sides of the island that soar majestically 10,000 feet above the sea -- often covered by a mysterious fog that lures one to the top where the cones and crags puncture an impossibly blue sky.

In my case, something else had that effect; or rather seemed to have that effect on others. It is an area on the northeast side of the island, hugging the shoreline, and just below the towering volcano of Haleakala. There resides a spectacular tropical forest of unfathomable beauty. It is not however the usual type of rainforest -- hidden in some deep valley; shrouded in mist, moisture, and mystery. Rather it is located astride the coastline -- on the hillside and mountains overlooking the stunning Maui shore. What makes it particularly interesting for the first time visitor is that you traverse this tropical wonderland via a one-lane byway known as “The Road to Hana.”

As you drive this mountain highway, you pass through 30 miles of what can only be described as the world’s largest and most magnificent plant store. An astonishing array of tropical plants, flowers, and trees pass by as you traverse the steep, winding road on the slopes of an impossibly beautiful shoreline. As you make your way through the sun-dappled region, navigating the 50+ hairpin turns, on a road that is often a single lane shared with oncoming traffic (!), you feel as if you have arrived at Eden -- to a real, not a mythical paradise on earth.

And yet despite the 1 to 2000 cars that navigate the difficult-to-travel road on any given day, you are enthralled by the green landscapes, the endless cascading waterfalls -- not to mention a spectacular 1/4-mile arboretum with plants, flowers, and trees so beautiful, strange, and mystical-like that you want to cry.

The Road to Hana is a journey through the physical beauty of life -- a tour de force, magical place dreamed up by some God-like artisan. In addition to the enjoyment of the ride, there is the added promise that you will find something special when you arrive at the mysterious town the road is named after. You imagine a village of artists, poets, and seekers of the New; an ideal world, of happy, contented individuals, expressing themselves through their strange and beautiful art, or musing on the nature of life in the cosmos.

However, when you finally arrive at Hana after a grueling 2-3 hour drive, you see that there is hardly anything to be found. There are a few buildings, a few shops -- even a few places to lodge; but that is all. Sure, the hillsides are dotted with spectacular homes tucked away in coastal forests overlooking the ocean, but what you find in Hana is a little underwhelming, despite the promise of its namesake road. How odd, I thought at the time, that after this thrilling but arduous journey, so little was to be found.

And yet, there was no point in dwelling on misgivings, since there was still much to see. In particular, I was eager to drive on beyond Hana, and traverse the eastern side of the island below the great Haleakala volcano. My goal was to work my way all the way around the eastern side of the island to the southern town of Kihei where I was lodging. Though I began that effort with enthusiasm, after 10 miles I came to a sign indicating that that the road ahead was closed. Undeterred by the marker -- which I rationalized as likely being out of date -- I forged ahead. After all, I was certainly not ready to go back and navigate 50 hairpin turns, impossibly difficult one-way roads, potholes filled with rainwater, and gawking, camera-toting tourists looking for beautiful shots of road-hugging waterfalls. And so I plowed ahead, seeking my next adventure.

Unfortunately, after several more miles, I came upon yet another sign indicating the same thing: that the road ahead was blocked. Pursing my lips, and letting out a sigh, I now realized that my vision of driving around the deserted part of the island below the Great Volcano for 20 miles on a dirt road crossing virgin, untrammeled, hardly-navigated and inhabited spectacular scenery would have to wait for another day.

And so now I was forced to contemplate the journey back to Hana and then further on back to civilization. It was not the happiest of thoughts, considering my physical exhaustion and my frayed nerves. However, after grumbling about the situation for a minute, I gathered myself, took a deep breath, and accepted my fate. I then shifted my orientation inward, and psychologically prepared myself for the grueling 3-hour return drive. And so I got into my car and joined the foray of vehicles that were returning to the populated areas of the island.

Then something very unexpected happened. Instead of being in a slow procession of vehicles working their way along a difficult to navigate 1-lane road, I found myself in a small caravan of cars that was moving quite swiftly! “What was this,” I thought, as I sped along at the tail end of a 10-car procession that were moving at perhaps 4 or 5 time the speed I arrived at. How was this possible?

As I revisited the same winding road traversing gorgeous rainforests above spectacular seashores, I perceived several things going on. First, I saw that there were hardly any cars coming from the opposite direction. Second -- and this was particularly striking – I did not have to concentrate intently while I was driving. All I had to do was watch the one car ahead of me, follow behind in tight formation, and I would be swiftly swept along with the pack!

I then realized that I would now make my way across the road in less than an hour, instead of the expected 2-3 hours. As I whizzed by familiar landscapes, I was utterly dumbfounded by this change in circumstance. However, soon after I understood what this was all about. It was simply life responding to my change in attitude. I.e., the moment I accepted in full that I would not be able to drive around the island, and would instead have to turn back, life cooperated from all quarters. When I shifted my attitude from reluctance to acceptance, and embraced the given that life had put before me, everything began to go well for me, as I was whisked across that landscape at the tail end of a swift-moving caravan!

In the end, the Road to Hana really was a profound experience for me -- even if it did not unfold as I expected. In fact, that lovely afternoon turned out to be not only an exhilarating outer experience, but an enlightening inner one as well. Outwardly, I was captured and enthralled by the physical beauty of a once in a lifetime locale. Inwardly, I was reminded once again of the vast power we have within ourselves to alter the conditions of life around us. In that way, The Road to Hana revealed several of its hidden mysteries to me -- providing another extraordinary moment on an unforgettable, once in a lifetime trip.

Utility of the Past
Use the past as a spring-board to leap towards the future. (The Mother)

Moving Out of Time
By not thinking of the past or future, one comes out of Time. (MSS)

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When a man does a wrong in a situation you are involved in, and you -- don't complain, work with what you have, and do what is required of that moment, -- the man will return with what is right.

 

Also See thoughts on Living in the Present Moment, the Eternal Now

 

 

 


Overcoming Reluctance; Not Listening
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The Attitude of Reluctance and Life Response
Whenever you overcome a negative attitude life will respond with the onset of good fortune. One common type of wanting attitude is our reluctance to accept something. If we shift from that reluctance to fully embrace the thing, sudden good fortune will surely come our way.

Reluctance and Attitudes
A reluctance indicates a bad attitude.

 



Examples of Overcoming Reluctance
When you overcome your reluctance -- itself an indicator of a reversal from a bad attitude -- life has an astonishing way of quickly responding with sudden good fortune. Here are some examples:

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A trainer was reluctant to review a series of complex training materials. Moreover, his schedule was so full that he was wondering how he would have the energy to go through them and do his training as well. He decided to overcome his reluctance, and went through the materials. As he finished the last changes, his telephone rang, and he heard the voice of his training manager, notifying him that a couple of his classes had been rescheduled, making it unnecessary to go through one of the complex set of training materials he was about to go through next, thus relieving his anxiety and tension.

 

The effort by the trainer to do something he was reluctant to do helped trigger a life response that helped ease his situation.

 

-An individual was studying the cause of the phenomenon of life response. Reading fiction as a way to learn about the varieties of ways in which life response occurs is suggested. He says at one point that he doesn't usually read fiction, thus he is unconsciously shutting himself from the understandings of life response that could come from such works of fiction. So he reverses himself and shows interest in a work of fiction that can help him understand life response. He reads over one hundred pages of a suggested novel that could be useful for this topic. Along the way he notices that he hasn't the deeper insight to derive great understanding from the novel. The next day he receives unsolicited from an associate an email with a very detailed line by line(!) explanation of life response in the book.

 

He has understood that by making the effort to overcome a reluctance he miraculously received all the insight he sought o know on his own.

 

-"One of the nurses upstairs called for a chart. The computer showed that the chart was still upstairs. This meant that I had to go upstairs to look all over the place for the chart, which is something I don't usually do and get frustrated when I do it. Well, this time I resigned myself to going upstairs to search for this chart. As I was going out the door from my department, there was a cart there holding several charts. I turned the first one over and it was the chart I was just about to go find!!!"

 

She overcame a reluctance, a limiting attitude, and a limiting habit all in one stroke to enable this wonderful response from life. 

Doing What Was Reluctant to Do Encounters Unexpected Ease and Good Fortune
How often we have seen the phenomenon where a person was reluctant to do a large work, then he changed and took it up, and found somewhere at some point in the work that the remaining part of the work was suddenly and surprisingly easy to do, or nearly completed, or confronted similar good fortune. It makes one see that there is never a reason to fear what one fears doing.

Taking Up What You Were Reluctant To Do

It is repeatedly amazing that when you take up what you were reluctant to do, that the original expectation gets shattered. E.g. The work gets done in far less time, or there is far less to do, or it was much easier than you thoughts, etc. Our fear makes us completely ignorant of the future truth, which freezes us to inaction in the present. By giving up the fear or reluctance, when we shed the false view, there is created a new unfolding in time.

 

Life Response Multiplier Effect from Overcoming Reluctance
If you take up an area you were hesitant to address before, life will respond by giving you a benefit in a related area from seemingly out of nowhere. If you then take up this life response benefit, another response will come, likewise in areas related to the original area and its response, again from seemingly out of nowhere.

A Reluctance Overcome on the El Camino Real
We were driving one of California's longest streets -- it goes on for many dozens of miles -- in search of an IHOP restaurant. We knew we would have to drive through one or more connected towns before we found one of the eateries. Besides I had just purchased a new car and we were stretching our wings on this glorious near-70 degree with perfectly-clear-blue-skies January day.

And yet after several minutes we could not find what we were after. An endless procession of retail stores and offices passed us by, and still no IHOP. We went on this way for a good twenty minutes. Surely there should have been one of these outlets along the ten or fifteen miles we traversed on this well-known commercial artery. There was also another problem; I was almost out of gas. On top of that, we were getting very hungry.

And so I thought I would push on for several more miles and see if luck would finally come our way. Meanwhile the gas gauge was moving towards absolute empty. Though we looked and looked, we still could not find an IHOP. Then I thought to myself that I should focus on getting the gas. And so I made an inner commitment to immediately find a filling station; and not concern myself with our lunch. Within ten seconds of making that decision, both my friend and I cried out at the top of our voice. "It's an IHOP!", as we both gestured in the direction of the restaurant that now was right in front of us!

Needless to say we pulled in and had our dinner. Thereafter, I filled the car with gas. During our lunch I commented that life had suddenly responded to my decision to purchase the gas. As soon as I overcame my reluctance to do so, the IHOP suddenly appeared, as if out of nowhere. It is but one more example that if you give up a wanting attitude -- in this case a reluctance to do what is necessary -- good fortune will suddenly come your way. This is one principle of the miraculous-like phenomenon of "life response."

As we enjoyed our meal, we recalled how we had both called out at the very same instance, like children in a Miyazaki cartoon, "It an IHOP!" It was a great way to break in my new car on this glorious California day.

Lack of Attention, Reluctance

What you are not giving proper attention to is your Achilles heal, and holds back the future. What you are reluctant to do tethers you tightly to the past.

 

On Not Accepting the Good Advise of Others
-Man does not listen to the good advise of others. He only absorbs the truth when he discovers it on his own, which means delay -- assuming he ever comes upon it in the first place.

-From a deeper consciousness one is always vigilant of the truth, especially if it comes from others, as one is in  perpetual state of harmony with them.

-Obstruction or obliviousness to the helpful advice of others, is but another example of human ignorance. By moving to a deeper consciousness, one overcomes it -- creating an opening for right action and greater success in life.

 


Availing Opportunities
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Take Up Opportunities
Fully take up the practical opportunities that come your way. That response will clear the way for greater opportunities to rise and move in your direction.

Opportunities & Challenges
How one responds to opportunities and to challenges
is a great determinant of our ability to accomplish in life.

Failure to Avail Opportunities, Luck
Failure to avail of opportunities, i.e. Luck, is one of the perpetual human tragedies. When jobs were scarce to be had, one man refused a position he was offered because it was not in his hometown. Another leader wouldn't listen to the brilliant opportunity for the organization presented by a subordinate because he was a subordinate. There are endless examples; a number of which, if sincere, we can present from our own lives. Such reluctances, unwillingness to avail opportunities is pushing Luck away from us at the feast of life. (Paraphrase of MSS)

Subtle Perception of Opportunities

One cannot lose the opportunities that come our way. One needs to develop the greatest subtle sensitivity and positive reaction to incoming opportunities. The wrong sensitivity will cancel it. [As we move into a deeper consciousness within, away fro the surface, and also when we have a deeper grasp of the subtle workings of life, we develop the consistent subtle wherewithal and awareness to perceive the emerging possibilities. -- editor]

 

Thus eliminate all negative sensibilities and sensations to enable subtle awareness, to avail of the great opportunities that are around us.

 

When we recognize them, we must see them as a grace, and feels thanks, and offer our gratitude. (Paraphrase of MSS)

Capturing the Unique Moments that Come to Us
There are unique moments in life that pass like a dream. One must catch them on the wing, for they never return. (The Mother)

Availing Opportunities
How we respond to the opportunities that life presents us is an important key to accomplishing in life. When presented with an opportunity one person may embrace it while another may ignore it or feel indifferent to it. Those who embrace it are put on the fast track to success while those who ignore it stay where they are or regress. Most individuals are somewhere in between, reacting to opportunity in a sluggish manner over a prolonged period of time. If we become more conscious in our lives, if we are open and our attitudes, opinions, and habits don't get in the way, we will be eager to embrace new opportunities when they come our way; opportunities that can make the difference between limited success and great achievement in life.

Opportunities that Bring Great Enjoyment are Shunned by Us
There are limitless possibilities for us, but we do not avail of them. We turn away from the higher opportunity which will bring us greater enjoyment to our current smaller enjoyment. Why do we turn away from such possibilities? It is because we are comfortable with our current lives of Ignorance, shunning the higher Knowledge. We enjoy our current existence, rooted in our Taste of Ignorance. And we live this way because we are centered in our lower physical and vital consciousness which pulls us down to our human Ignorance, instead of living in our mental rational consciousness, or our spiritual mental consciousness, where Knowledge is there that will sustain our involvement of the possibilities that bring higher enjoyment. For one, our physical possessiveness keeps us where we are; whereas being centered in our mental consciousness we do not have this vibration of possessiveness. If we grow in this way up the vertical scale of consciousness, we can avail of the emerging opportunities, leading to a vast enjoyment, which still requires at every stage a renewed aspiration.
(Paraphrase of MSS)

Opportunities and Great Accomplishment
Those who respond positively to significant opportunities can catch the wave of great accomplishment in life. Those who are indifferent or ignore those opportunities are left behind. If an individual doesn't initially respond fully to the great opportunity, he may past through a number of stages of reaction until he embraces the opportunity. This process can be a difficult one, yet may be matched by a process of growth and personal evolution.



Nine Levels of Availing Opportunities
W
e are not conscious enough to perceive and respond positively to opportunities that come our way, often people respond to opportunities in a sluggish manner. That prolonged and troubled occurs in many people's lives, and tends to show itself in consistent patterns. Let's then examine this pattern in terms of two people, one Eliza, the heroine of Pride and Prejudice, and an instructor in the present times. Each is presented with an opportunity, and each responds in a similar way, indicating distinct patterns of response to the opportunity, matched by a difficult personal growth. The general phases in the process we have consistently witnessed when a great opportunity comes our way are in order from unconscious to conscious awareness:

  1. Complete lack of awareness of the great opportunity

  2. Indifference when one finally does become conscious of the opportunity

  3. Hostility to the opportunity

  4. Recognition of the possible benefit of the opportunity

  5. A real positive response to the opportunity

  6. An impatience to gain the opportunity; even a desperation to gain it

  7. Experiencing physically and emotionally the full joy that the opportunity presents

  8. A recognition of one's faults and limitations that prevented one from ceasing the opportunity in the first place, or being hostile to it (i.e. one grows and evolves as a person)

  9. Fully embracing the opportunity, though success at this point may be too later or diluted, or if lucky enough or deep enough change in one's attitudes and heart, full accomplishment.

In Pride and Prejudice Eliza aspires in her life to rise to a better position for herself and her family. In 18th century England that usually occurred through marriage for a woman. Eliza is invited to a dance where the master of the estate Pemberley, Darcy, notices her. He is a  very wealthy man (who she will later marry, which will vastly change her life for the better). When he walks in the room she could care less. The result is that her first response to the approach of unprecedented opportunity is the typical response of people to what is far above their present level of accomplishment. She is completely unaware of the great opportunity.

Similarly in current times an instructor sees that other instructors are beginning to train on a few new programs. He barely notices. The opportunity to go to a much higher level barely registers in his consciousness. 

At the next stage (stage 2 as indicated above) in Pride and Prejudice Darcy asks Eliza to dance and she is completely indifferent. Likewise in our modern story when a program manager asks the instructor if he is interested in attending a free train the trainer seminar on the new program, he is indifferent. At this stage when one becomes somewhat conscious of the opportunity, one reacts with indifference.

At the next stage (3) Eliza through a series of events expresses her hostility to Darcy in her conversations with others. Likewise the instructor becomes anger with the training company that he would have to train on that new program in an area far away where he would have to navigate through a lot of traffic every morning. At this stage there is a stirring in their emotions as it relates to the opportunity, and express their feelings about it or to related people or circumstance as hostility

At stage 4 Eliza speaks with other people and comes to realize that there actually may be real benefits to involvement with Darcy after all. Likewise the instructor relents in his anger and recognizes that teaching this new program may not be so bad after all after he sees other's enthusiastic about it and express that it may lead to other benefits which can help their career financially and interest-wise. He sees the same for himself. At this stage they both experience through life experiences the benefit of taking up the opportunity.

At stage 5, both Eliza in 18th century England and the instructor in 20th century America begin to see the real benefit of the opportunity and begin to have the first full positive response to the opportunity. (Their own positive response also attracts positive responses from life in this or related areas of accomplishment.) 

Also, along the way there is also the beginnings of the recognition of their own limited beliefs and attitudes that prevented one from reacting positively to the opportunity in the first place. They recognized their own stupidity, arrogance, and misplaced passions and energy, among others. (This recognition is in fact an indication of their personal growth and evolution.) 

At stage 6 one becomes impatient to undertake the opportunity; there is a lack of calm and perhaps even a sense of desperation. For Eliza it is an almost panic need to meet with Darcy. The instructor frantically tries calling the training manager (who is not in!) to attend a second train the trainer seminar on the software application.

At stage 7 each experience physically and emotionally the full joy that the opportunity presents. Elisa finally manages to visit Darcy's enormous estate, and experiences the full physical pleasure of her walk around the estate, recognizing that she could become its co inhabitant. She has the full sensation of the great opportunity that has come her way. Likewise, the instructor attends the train-the-trainer seminar and experiences first hand the joy of learning that particular new program.

At stage 8 there is a great recognition of one's past faults and limitations that prevented one from ceasing the opportunity in the first place. This is where the greatest personal growth comes in to play. For Eliza she realizes how foolish she has been in getting involved with another man Wickham, who was a scoundrel. She also realizes how foolish she has been in defending her family, including her very crude mother and her scandalous younger sister. She recognizes her own responsibility in losing Darcy, and her family's responsibility in her loss as well. She takes the attitude of fully acknowledging what she is. Likewise the instructor comes face to face with his attitudes that led to his negative response to opportunities. He even thinks back and recognizes other points in his life where he has had the same response, which also led to the devastation of other great possibilities.

At stage 9 one fully embraces the opportunity, though success at this point is not guaranteed in full or at all. In Eliza's case she releases her held back emotions and confesses to him her lack of gratitude to Darcy (who has actually helped her family in many other ways which she only recently came to understand). Because of many other extenuating positive extenuating circumstances, they come together and marry. The environment was supportive of their coming together despite all the twists and turns. On the other hand, in the case of the instructor his opportunity is only partially gained. He does some training in that area, but has lost the real thrust of the opportunity. (Fortunately other opportunities will come again.)

We should mention that often there is one other factor that may lurk in the background. Often when a great opportunity presents itself to someone suddenly a negative force appears on the scene that tries to deny the accomplishment. For example, in Eliza's case, though there is great opportunity for accomplishment through her marriage to Darcy, she is sidetracked by an infatuation with the scoundrel Wickham. It is Eliza's eventual ability to recognize her weakness and through off Wickham's influence that puts her back on the right path. The positive atmosphere around her also give support despite her foolish passions. Likewise in the life of the instructor a difficulty arose in the form of a noisy and bullyish neighbor who he had a confrontation with, causing the instructor to be physically incapacitated for months. 

In summary then when presented by great opportunities in life one often does not respond in full, which may lead one to have to traverse some or all of these nine plus stages so that one can come to terms with oneself (and thereby grow and evolve as a person) or accomplish or both. Of course the more conscious we are in the first place the more we can react positively to the great opportunities that life presents. By elevating our capacities and character through the many techniques outlined at this site (improving our attitudes, skills, energy, effort, direction, etc.), we can become the person who is more readily able to respond to the opportunities that life presents, and accelerate accomplishment in life, rather than meandering through a maze of events and circumstance that causes us to grow through pain and eventually achieve. 

Hypothetical Example of Non-Acceptance of an Opportunity
An individual is offered a big opportunity to be involved with a project, but he does not perceive it that way. Later on down the line, he realizes his earlier folly and goes after that which he had earlier rejected. While he may or may not gain the project he once rejected, he could invoke a positive life response elsewhere because of his change of heart.

Reversing an Unacceptance of an Opportunity Attracts
Often in life people are offered opportunities, possibilities that one rejects. If one reverses and overcomes these, life responds in kind. Putting that in a positive way, take what life presents to you; do the work that you are assigned happily, and with full effort.  (This is an example of a more positive attitude.) 

 

Man Takes Successes and Lost Opportunities for Granted
One truth about MAN is that when a man rises in life very fast, he takes it for granted. After some time he even forgets it. So also when a man loses a great opportunity - especially when it is invisible - he is not likely to know what he has lost. (MSS)

Availing Nature's Opportunities for Higher Consciousness
Nature, i.e. life presents opportunities to implement higher consciousness. Centered within, the opportunity can proceed without friction, smoothly, outside the bounds of space and time, which in essence moves us beyond Nature's usually difficult way.

Overwhelming Success that Presages Emergences in Society
We see how an individual's pioneering effort brings out an emerging element of the society that is subconscious to that society at the time. The vast success of
Darwin's book Origin of the Species (sold out on the first day) lead the society out of parts of its folly, ignorance, and falsehood. Margaret Mitchell's enormous success with Gone with the Wind's in which the heroine is a difficult, though liberated woman presages the vast emergence of woman in 20th century. And Tom Peters enormous, unexpected success in In Search of Excellence helped accelerate the liberation and freedom of the individual in the workplace, an echo of the hippy phenomenon a few years earlier. Each was an overwhelming success, presaging the corresponding new emerging element in society.

If an individual can catch the wave of the emerging element in society -- there is always one or more -- he will have an overwhelming success in his work as these individuals did.

Maximizing an Opportunity Presented from the Spiritual Perspective

  • A man having an opportunity receives it in his mind or vital which is the part. He has to move to the whole where the spiritual term in the physical consciousness lies.
  • Take a man getting a fine investment opportunity and let us trace that path and process here. Let him receive it as an idea of the mind or an interest in the vital.
  • All the higher or lower points DO NOT lie in the proposal or in a rising column of his personality from head to foot, but they are all POINTS in his own attitude, not elsewhere.
  • In the mind, the idea is a conception.
  • He should move away from the conception on two lines, one above and the other down below. It will be a simultaneous movement, a double opening.
  • If he gives up the thought of the idea – his mind becomes silent.
  • When he tries NOT to understand even through silence – it becomes a vision.
  • When he gives up the reliance on light – it changes into a direct intuition.
  • When he gives up the medium of Intuition, he gets the pure knowledge of the project unmixed with Ignorance. Still, the ignorance is around.
  • By trying to know there is light as a seed in the Ignorance, he moves to the Supermind. (MSS)

Also See Availing Opportunities in Business

Also See Aligning with the Aspirations of Society

Also See Self-Reliance and Entrepreneurship

Also See the Pioneer Individual in Society



Obstacles as Opportunities

Prosperity is Measure of Obstacles Seen as Opportunities
Your prosperity is in the measure of your understanding the OBSTACLES as opportunities. (MSS)

 

Obstacles Turned into Growth and Opportunities
When we encounter an external obstacle in life, we can look within ourselves and discover an opportunity for inner growth. When we take the effort to make that growth, outer problems dissolve and new opportunities open up for us.

 

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Procrastination

A man puts off fixing something that is broken for now, unconsciously figuring that no problem or accident will arise from it in the short run. He doesn't realize that the future, when the problem will occur, is really the present. i.e. the Ever-Present when one connects to the Highest Consciousness. He has in that neglectful moment in effect caused a serious accident to occur in the present, his present, the human present.

 

We can view all social development issues, including impediments and anachronisms, from this perspective. Looked at closely, we will see that life works like this virtually 100% of the time.
 

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A conscious man should respond first to people's responses to him.

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When new situations arise which one wants to avoid, there is the opportunity to give in and embrace it fully. It then amazes how life instantly turns around for the better.

Rejecting the Achievement of What One Longed For
When what an individual long aspired for is finally granted, he rejects it. (Paraphrase of MSS)

 


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